Thursday, December 29, 2011

Update from the Hugans

Well, it has been a few months since I've posted on this blog, so I will try to summarize it all in this post.

In October we celebrated Sandra's birthday on October 9th. I'm so thankful for her! (More on that later.) Then, we began going through a series of doctor appointments due to Katie’s shoulder pain. It turned out that she had injured her shoulder due to over-pitching during last year's softball season. Over the past several weeks Katie has gone through physical therapy, and is in the process of a return-to-throw rehabilitation. We are hoping that her shoulder will become stronger and that she will be pain-free.

November is always one of our favorite months. November 10th was our 21st wedding anniversary. I am so thankful for the godly wife that the Lord gave me. She is truly my “true north”. The Lord has been so good to us over these 21 years, and I look forward to many more years of serving Him with her.

Michael's 18th birthday was on November 15th. It has been an amazing experience, and a great blessing to have raised Michael thus far. As we pray for the Lord’s direction and purpose for Michael, we are seeing the Lord bless him in many ways, day after day. He just recently finished his first semester at the University of Michigan, in Dearborn. Meanwhile, he has a good job working for a very stable company. His is remaining very active in church ministry; especially in the music ministry. He is also a great help in many aspects of the church, many of which are behind-the-scenes. I am thankful to the Lord for his willingness to not only serve in areas that are noticeable to others, but also in ways that only he, I, and the Lord know about. I am looking forward to seeing how the Lord develops him and guides him in the direction of his God-given destiny.

December was, as always, an enjoyable month, despite the busyness of the season. We were able to spend some family time during the holidays with my parents and Sandra's mom, and we are still currently enjoying time with the kids during the holiday break. Although Michael is off of school, he is working every day through the week; he really likes that - especially the paycheck!

That should get us up to date for now. Hope everyone has a happy new year!

Thursday, September 29, 2011

Happy Birthday Katie!

Today is Katie's 15th Birthday.

Words cannot express our thankfulness for our little girl, turned beautiful young lady. The Lord has blessed in so many ways in regard to Katie. As I look at pictures from the past, it is evident why years ago I began to call her my "Sunshine".
With all the experiences that have come in her life, the Lord has blessed her beyond description. We're so happy for her for how the Lord has and is continuing to work in her life. We are so proud of her!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SUNSHINE!!!

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Goodbye To Our Beloved Buddy

In late August we took Buddy to the vet because he kept having ear troubles. When the doctor checked him out, he found some of the lymph nodes swollen. The doctor prescribed some antibiotics. Well, over the next couple of weeks, the nodes kept getting bigger. We took Buddy to another vet on the 6th of September and they did a test that came back positive for lymphoma. We were given a different antibiotic, but it didn't help. Over the the next two and a half weeks we watched Buddy get worse. We were slowly coming to the realization that Buddy wouldn't be with us much longer.

September, 2010

During the last two weeks of Buddy's life our family spent some great quality time with him. Michael and Katie each took their final turns at having Buddy sleep in their rooms. For nine years and nine months Michael and Katie took weekly turns with Buddy sleeping in their rooms on his floor bed. Sometimes they would sleep on the floor with him. Needless to say the kids, as well and Sandra and I became very close to Buddy.
With Michael / 2006

With Katie / 2004

2002

I made sure to get some pictures of Buddy doing some of the fun things he's always done; some of them he had stopped doing because they took too much energy out of him. He wasn't too interested in playing ball much anymore. He used to be great at playing catch; sometimes with his U of M football, and other times with a tennis ball we would hit out in the yard to him. He was awesome at jumping up and catching those balls! He truly was our own "Air Bud", and he loved playing that role. A few times I played "dot" with him (from the laser level we keep in the cupboard). Any time we would get out the "dot" he went crazy; he loved trying to catch that little red dot. It was so fun watching him play that game! All the games we would play with him added so much enjoyment, for him and for us!

Now that he didn't feel good enough to play because of the discomfort (he never displayed that he was in any pain), we got to where we would just take him outside for a walk around the church property. He loved to go outside and walk the perimeter of the property. As a puppy we trained him where the boundaries of the property were, and he was very good at staying within them. Every once in a while a squirrel or a rabbit would get his attention and sometimes we would have to go out and call him to keep him from chasing them too far - I'm gonna miss that... "Buddy, come home!"

(I'll add more memories over time)

This past Saturday, September 24th was going to be a busy day with our youth ministry Fall Festival in the morning and the church Fall Cookout at night. Earlier in the week Sandra and I contemplated how to work the timing out with relieving Buddy of the pain and suffering he undoubtedly was going through. We talked to the kids and decided, with our busy schedule, that Saturday was going to be the best day. I won't even try to describe the pain the four of us were experiencing, especially beginning in the early morning hours on Saturday. The short version (the long version being too painful to describe): we took Buddy to the vet and spent some very quality time (mainly for us) with him. The doctor and his assistant were very gracious and kind. They gave us all the time we needed. As he lay on my lap, we each gave very heart-felt hugs to our dear Buddy and said goodbye to, in our minds, the best dog on the planet.

We are all very, very sad that we had to let Buddy go. We will always hold the memories, some of which I plan to put on a blog about Buddy. Even though the conversations keep coming up about whether or not there is another dog in our family's future, all four of us unanimously agree - we will never find another Buddy.

We thank the Lord for the wonderful 9 years, 9 months He allowed Buddy to be a part of our lives. As Christians we know there is no "doggy heaven" and that Buddy is no more, but we do believe that the joy that Buddy brought into our family was truly a gift from the Lord to season our time here on this earth as we serve Him and look forward to being forever in His presence in Heaven. Still, there is the pain of the loss of a good friend, a great friend - certainly our favorite four-legged friend.

Monday, June 27, 2011

Another Good Year In Softball!



Katie and the Inter-City Varsity Girls Softball team had another "banner" year. And by that I mean they actually won the regional championship - for the second consecutive year!


Saturday, November 13, 2010

20th Wedding Anniversary


This past week Sandra and I went away for a couple of days to celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary. It really is hard to imagine how 20 years could have gone by so fast! What is even harder to imagine is that 20 years from now I will be really old! OK, maybe not that old; 65 is looking younger every year!
There are far too many things to point out how the Lord has blessed us since that wonderful day on November 10th, 1990. I remember moment by moment all that took place that day; what a joyful day indeed! Ask Sandra to tell you the story about how her dress wouldn't let her get out of the limousine. Of course, if you are a member of FRMBC, you've heard that story, probably on more than one occasion.
Twenty years later, our lives are filled with manifold blessings from the Lord. It's hard to believe that Michael is almost 17 years old, and Katie is a beautiful 14-year-old teenager.
The Lord has truly blessed us with two wonderful children! Along with the challenges that come with raising teens, we are watching the Lord work in the lives of our children as they're growing ever so close to their adult years. Though it comes with challenges, it is a great experience as we help them in their journey to discover the Lord's destiny for their lives of service to Him.
Sandra and I are so thankful that the Lord has given us these 20 years. By God's grace, we have strived to live our lives in such a way as to allow the Lord to use us for His glory. We have enjoyed serving Him in youth ministry, in music ministry, and over the past 16 years in ministering to the wonderful people at Flat Rock Missionary Baptist Church.
We are looking forward to the future as we continue to serve Him and His people and we are looking forward to seeing how He will use Michael and Katie in the years to come.
I also look forward to spending many more years, Lord willing, with the love of my life, my dear wife, Sandra! I look forward to growing old together with her, although, she reminds me that I will be there far sooner than she will. That's okay though; that means I can use that as an excuse for my dry wit and sense of humor. I'm gonna love that!

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

How I Voted Today



HOW I VOTED TODAY:
I voted PRINCIPLES, not personality.
I voted CHARACTER, not charisma.
I voted MORALS, not money.
I voted ENCOURAGEMENTS, not entitlements.
I voted CHILDREN, not convenience.